Our generation think vast differently from the previous generation. the idea of marriage is very controversial. Pro-marriage people are tagged as typical by the non believers and the anti marriage ones are called directionless and showoffs.
However it is true that we are increasingly becoming phobic towards the idea of marriage.
Following are the possible reasons which might be possible that are triggering the marriage phobia towards our generation:
8. Marriage Is A Union Of Two Families
Marriage is far away more than the union of two individuals. There are people of various personalities in families. This is what scares us. What will happen if a trouble arises and we are not able to withstand it!!
7. Have firm Believe In ‘Living In The Moment’
Nobody knows or have control on future. Marriages require a lifetime commitment and therefore questions as what if we don’t make it to the end make us anxious and fearful.
6. We Fear Entering A Bondage For A Life
All of us need love. Our love tree stands on fear and comfort. We fear that charm of love will subside and lots of responsibilities will leave us depressed.
5. Marriages Don’t Work ‘Either Everything Or Nothing At All’ Way
Marriage means adjusting and sharing. When you want everything from marriage then it will not work because even on being single we are not able to fulfill our each and every wish.
4. We Have Goals Much More Important Than Settling Down
We fear that our passion will die early if we step into a life term bond.
3. Marriage will Distance Us From our Most Favourite Things
We have more dear things than to getting tied for a lifetime.
2. Even The Idea Of Marriage Fills Us With The Fear Of The End Of Our Freedom
Marriage means strictly together for life. What else does it want at the first place! Free at hearts start to feel bound whenever the talk of their marriage starts because marriage essentially comes with rules.
1. It Is A Risk Nobody Wants To Take
Nobody is born as perfect and life can present challenges which you wouldn’t have ever handled in the wildest of your dreams.It can make your life full of surprises or shocks or perfect blend of both. Most of us don’t want to take that life changing risk.
Our generation must not fear this essential part of our life and try to learn to face every challenge that life has to present with the pleasure of togetherness.