A girl is a super duper complex creature. She is a pretty stubborn person if she has a secret which she doesn’t want to share it with anyone. Hence, forget a guy, it’s even difficult for her family members and besties to figure her out when she is upset or being secretive.
But there are signs which tell you that something is so not right with her. look out for these signs and you might just make her talk it out instead of letting her suffer all alone:
1. She is undisturbed and lost even at your funny stories !
You must be well aware of how girls burst into giggles at the pettiest of jokes. If you are the fun man of her life and she reacts to your super funny story by going “hmm”, or, “what else”, there are high chances that she is lost in some other world and you need to bring her back to this world somehow.
2. Gets distressing around you !
If she bites her nails nervously, can’t stand still, constantly fidgets with things around her, avoids affectionate hugs or any kind of physical touch, something is troubling her way too much. It’s best you make her comfortable enough to speak it out.
3. Ignores a certain topic every time you bring it up !
If it gets awkward and she wards off the idea of talking about it, something is definitely fishy.
4. “I don’t care type” of a personality suddenly becomes philosophical !
Out of nowhere, a girls who talks about parties, movies and music is talking about earth, sunset and stars. A big sign of disturbance.
5. Avoids making direct eye contact or any contact at all !
She is definitely trying to hide something desperately as avoiding to make eye contact means that you are too close to her and just by looking into your eye, she might babble out things she doesn’t want to otherwise.
6. Suddenly starts to escape any conversation with you !
Girls can talk and talk and talk and if she is of the kind who shared every tiny detail of her each day with you, and all of a sudden starts to avoid talking to you, then it is likely that some mystery may be brewing. Check it out.
7. Trying to act too sweet cause there is guilt of something she did to you !
If you can’t figure out that why all of a sudden she is doing all of your favourite things which she disliked. You need to question her if she is trying to keep something from you and secretively making up for it.
8. Becomes best friends with someone new !
If you were the one who she used to confide in, and suddenly she starts to hang out more with a new friend in her life, something may be fishy. You might have given her the vibe of not being a comfort zone anymore. Think about it.
9. Goes on silent mode !
Silence is the cry for help for a girl. If she doesn’t react to the most deadliest of things that you tell her then something has occupied her brain completely.
10. Suddenly starts to become more preoccupied with her privacy !
If the social bee, all of a sudden wants to be all by herself by turning down every invitation on her way and avoids to meet friends. She is hiding something from the world which has left a deep impact on her.
11. Goes out to help the world and people in need.
She might not be able to fix her problems, but fixing others gives her a sense of relief that it’s gonna be fine and that she is just fine.
12. Gets annoyed, cranky, yells, and frets over tiny things !
If she cant sort out the situation, she starts loosing her mind and heart. Worse thing is that she gets extremely sorrowful about making her close ones suffer, but because of her complex nature that drives her to keep things hidden, she is not able to help it either.
13. Dresses up too shabbily and not like her usual self !
If you find that suddenly she is pairing up her clothes wrong, or her hair is messy, she losses interest in putting kajal, and completely looses interest in looking good then she definitely needs attention and care.
In addition to guys; even family members, cousins, colleague and girlfriends can look for these signs when she starts to clasp things in her heart locket, and help her out. A girl is a pretty complex creature but we can try to help her out and make her life easy. It’s not just the thing that she is hiding, that pains her, the fact that she is troubling people around her also pains her equally.